Most likely they have your password (which they might have gotten from a virus, trojan, back-door-worm, or something else.

While anti-virus is great (at this point I feel obliged to mention my employer, McAfee) one area constantly overlooked are apps on Facebook which are malicious. I just got through telling my wife not to install apps on FB unless she absolutely had to (which means, something you will use and use constantly). I used to be bad about installing all the poll and quiz applications on Facebook I came across until I went back through my installed apps one day and noticed that many of them weren’t even named the same thing they were named when I installed them.

So if you are worried that someone has hacked your online accounts the best thing to do is to immediately change all of your passwords. Make sure you use a strong password too (that goes for your wife as well as you).

Also, I highly recommend going through your Facebook applications and uninstalling anything you don’t use as they could be used to harvest your information. Not that you should remove them all (I love Mafia Wars) but if you were to read what a developer has access to you’d certainly think long and hard about each application you install

Finally, (for the super-paranoid) if you are using a wireless router you should certainly be using some form of wireless encryption (hopefully not WEP because it is vulnerable to attacks). Otherwise all of your information is being transmitted in the clear and can be easily captured with minimal effort.

It’s possible that this person might be getting your personal information another way (via ESP perhaps? ) but I think the most likely culprit is your computer/network security.

There’s more that you can do to harden your systems against attack, but these are the most often used avenues of attack. If your adversary is a hacker let me know and I’ll continue listing things you can do to make your systems secure.

Good luck!

Next, we’ll look into some security products and practices that can help you secure your systems.

Microsoft initially tried to claim that this exploit was trivial but has since issued an out-of-cycle emergency patch for all versions of Internet Explorer.

Looks like now is the perfect time to switch to one of the more superior browsers like Chrome or Firefox.

Here’s a video detailing how this hack works in action in case you are like me and interested in the juicy technical details:

• The shortness and simplicity of passwords means many users select credentials that will make them susceptible to basic forms of cyber attacks known as “brute force attacks.”
• Nearly 50% of users used names, slang words, dictionary words or trivial passwords (consecutive digits, adjacent keyboard keys, and so on). The most common password is “123456”.
• Recommendations for users and administrators for choosing strong passwords.

Also, here are the top 10 most commonly used passwords they found:

1. 123456
2. 12345
3. 123456789
4. Password
5. iloveyou
6. princess
7. rockyou
8. 1234567
9. 12345678
10. abc123

I’ve said it before, the first step in computer security is having a strong password policy.

Strong passwords which include a combination of upper and lowercase letters, numbers, punctuation, and are not based on a dictionary word are often not very easy to remember. And if it’s not easy to remember, chances are we’ll either end up writing it down (bad idea!) or we’ll choose a simpler password. Additionally, since we are often faced with a myriad of sites which all require separate accounts (and passwords), using different passwords for each site we use tends to fall by the way side in favor of convenience.

It doesn’t have to be like this.

Here’s a technique I’ve found helpful for creating strong, easy-to-remember passwords. It involves coming up with a unique method of transforming a simple word into a strong password using a few simple rules. The beauty of this system is that, unlike a strong password generator, the passwords you come up with using a system like this are easy to remember and can be unique to each site you use them with.

Here are a few other strong-password-generating ideas:

• Microsoft: Create Strong Passwords
• McAfee: I Hate the Password Policy!
• About.com: Creating and Maintaining a Strong Password System

No matter what you choose to use to help you generate strong passwords. It’s always a good idea to check your password’s strength to gauge how hard it would be for an attacker to guess your password.